On to the nearest convenience or to ring loud noise out of the cycle of child-liter small-school choice

Beijing Chongwen school this year, "Young-liter small" interview scene, there have been such a scene -

A mother with a 6-year-old son came to exams, and other or tension, or different expectations of children, the little boy kept down sobbing, his face tears, it seems extremely wronged. This unusual move caused a white president Shulan's attention, she walked around the little boy, asked softly: "Good boy, why are you crying?" I did not speak so the little boy, his mother quickly said: "All right all right, he was just a moment, not impact test. "a mother these words, the child cried even more fiercely.

Bai Shulan asked: "You do not want to come here to school? Not want your kids together, ah?" Heard the little boy nodded, sobbing whispered: "ah, they are on my house next to a school, I want them together ... "

Parents trouble to send their children to "little cow", the child's growth is what is beneficial or harmful? How to get out of "baby-liter small" school choice cycle?

Devoting himself to pick the school, is really suitable for children?

<<Compulsory Education Law>> regulations, the implementation of compulsory Education exemption nearest school, which is based on the age characteristics of physical and mental growth of children and adolescents and the development of Education Law requires local governments to fulfill the duties, but in reality, "the nearest "has become a pain in the hearts of many parents.

When school choice, Mr. Wang, who lives in Chaoyang District, Beijing tangle for a long time, finally let his son go to the Haidian District, an elementary school. "In fact, next to my house that primary school was okay, but not near good junior high school, parents must for children 6 years of studies to consider ah! "Wang explained.

Although to do so send their children to the Haidian a "small cattle", Mr. Wang is still not so easily be: "To the children go to school, we rented a house near the school, one month rent of 5,000 yuan, but also more than one car to work hours parents spend more time on the road, the natural time to accompany the child less. economic pressure can not be ignored. More seriously, the parents of this dedication, in the absence of the expected results, the child's damage will not be greater? "think of them, Mr. Wang worried, ideal for primary school children were enrolled in joy, knowing it vanished.

In this regard, Bai Shulan personal experiences. "In fact, I often do parents in the hope that they do not blind school choice." Bai Shulan said to Chongwen Elementary School, for example, because this is a boarding school, children the integration of force must be better, and stronger self-care ability, talent and new students get along well, and quickly adapt to the new environment, which are physical and mental pleasure and some nostalgia for the parents and families more children, if hard raw habitat has been sent to the totally strange environment, the child's psychological development is not necessarily a good thing.

"Elite" of the aura, the must have high-quality Education?

In order to choose an "elite", the parents four connections, looking for opportunities. Cusp of the "elite" tastes like?

Beijing, a well-known school principal, who declined to be named, said: "Parents think that the money to the school are the hands, in fact, the Board of Education has provided sponsorship can only receive 1.5 million, and only hit the designated account , did not dare to close more than a penny, why some parents will spend thousands of dollars, ten million, it is because too many intermediate links, a lot of money to flow to the 'middleman' hands. "

The face of the community "astronomical sponsorship fee" and "test stumped students" and many other criticisms, some schools the victims. The principal said some of the primary condition is good, but due to the excessive pursuit of the parents, each year one and two hundred students, there are thousands of people applied, including dicing school, a relationship households have children of migrant workers. No way, only through the examination of merit. Nevertheless, eventually resulting in the overall size of the school and class sizes are large, principals, teachers, concerned about each child's difficult to grow.

"In fact, the primary stage is the physical and mental development of children's infancy, children aged 6 to 12 self-learning ability, self-care ability is not high, and requires teachers to teach hands, heart to heart to encourage this, the small number of schools more advantage, the children in school can be meticulous care and education, it is more than only a 'elite' of the ring is more important. "Baishu Lan says.

"Young-liter small" is a way of life the child to "upgrade", but also a choice. Bai Shulan that the child is not anyone's accessories, as an autonomous individual in the society, he has his own path in life to go. Responsibility of the parents is to help children to become a member of society, the aim of education is to let children grow into qualified citizens, "can not let the children lose at the starting line," one said not only misled the parents, but also misled the education. "this should be the child's own experience in the selection process, but arranged by the parents all the way, if the frame of the ladder children to high, then put the ladder removed, the child can easily fall Genghen. "

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School choice this thorny path, we have to take how long?

Despite Beijing's education resources are relatively abundant, but in the region, due to different hardware facilities of schools and teachers there is a certain level of imbalance, the formation of some "little cow." In this regard, the central Edition of the Basic Education Research Center Research Associate Easy Lingyun that the uneven distribution of educational resources has led to the generation of school choice, and school choice makes certain schools to concentrate resources further, exacerbated by the uneven education, school choice to form such a cycle, "cycle."

Today, the community of the growing demand for quality education, "everyone want their children to good schools, good schools, that means a good future, good future, good jobs, which is currently under the influence of social value system must choices of behavior, but what is a good school? is a long history of prestigious, high school or further education? is good teaching facilities, high levels of schools and teachers, students or the quality of a good school? "said Yi Lingyun These are good, but there is not the most essential, in terms of education theory, the growth of education for children is the best education, and schools can provide a suitable education is a good school.

Crack "baby-liter small" school choice issue, the way out? Easily Lingyun that the key lies in balance and equity in education to promote education, improve quality, unique, parents and students will be able to find good schools around. "Feet have The short, inch a director, "a school does not fit all students, but should have its own characteristics and advantages of providing children for their education.

"If balanced, distinctive and diverse education is the sun road, then school choice is destined to be a thorny path." Yi Lingyun said, whether education or occupation, in fact, the best may not be the most suitable for individual, only accept the most suitable and match the education and work, in order to smooth the road to growth and success.

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