Life of medical students self-management education seminars

Abstract: A Medical schools, for example, through questionnaires and statistical data, surveys of Medical students focus on the choice of love object and the romance of the psychological experience, the in-depth analysis of Medical college students comes to love in order to understand the basic situation of the current Medical students self- life management of the state, establish and improve Medical students for the future life of self-management Education system to provide reference.

Keywords: medical students self-management comes to love life

Students self-life management is the management of modern society, meaning one medical college courses with class tension, academic richer busy so special, and as psychological maturity, the desire and pursuit of love, naturally in the medical Health inner bud. medical student comes to love life on campus reflects the medical schools and medical students physical and mental Health, through the investigation into the lives of medical students self-management status is necessary.

1 comes to love basic medical students reflects the status of self-life management
Choose a medical college students as respondents, by self-designed questionnaire, distribution, recycling and statistics showed that 45% of medical students said they talked about or being in love, while 30 percent said medical students are not currently talk, if met the right will fall into one, and only less than 30% of medical students has not made it clear that talk is not prepared to talk about in college. Cupid why medical schools will be on campus so shine it? 45% of respondents believe that not much pressure because of school, too much idle time, the heart empty and alone, you need comfort, love led Indeed, out of high school in the sea tactical and repeated mechanical learning, the university is a relative become random and inspirational, if unreasonable to arrange a time, will feel there are too many idle, seems to have nothing to do. entered the university campus, which means entering a new environment, we must re-establish relationships, medical institutions have also is no exception. annoyance, boredom, self-improvement through the exchange of medical students to make such demands of unprecedented intimacy strong, intimate ties to the vertex is love. In addition to parents, probably will not admit more intimate than lovers of people, and between lovers close in some ways the relationship between parents and children can not be compared, so the pursuit of intimacy leads to medical students alone love is a natural thing. psychologists Sullivan pointed out, intimacy and sexual impulses eventually combined with the love of adult classes, all of these important interrelated tendencies ... This early into the youth of intimacy, friendship, recognition, private communication of the same needs, and a more sophisticated form and establish a relationship of a heterosexual needs.

In love to catch the trend will lead to the occurrence of answer on this question, 18 percent of medical students think so, this is the herd mentality. If in a dorm, most people are in love, the rest of the people will be affected. In the adolescent's medical students, often lack sufficient self-affirmation, and some even for their own no lover and self-esteem, so they will not "go against the tide." trendy with the induction of the surrounding cultural environment, beyond the death of love film, romantic romantic novels, romance love songs, love to experience feelings of commercials - everything will be popular on campus subtle affect the behavior of medical students.

Love is often susceptible to objective factors about people's feelings and desires, you are always free between my identity as medical students, to maintain the bond of love, just spiritual needs, on the face of joy, love the basis of very weak outlook has not been fully established, personality, emotional stability is not enough if the future career and marriage and family are seriously considering, in the common learning, life and a variety of extracurricular activities, the establishment of deep feelings, and both sides can control their emotions, learn to love and unity, then order this unforgettable love, how much the price is worth it.

2 reflects the love object of choice to enhance medical students the importance of self-management Education life
Medical students in the crowd, the ideal conditions for love has turned to focus on content, focus on character is the general trend. Survey of medical students of the opposite sex is more emphasis on the intrinsic quality of the requirements of a relatively small external factors in the appreciation of advantage of the opposite sex, the intrinsic quality accounted for 75%, while the focus on external factors and only 25% of them girls to boys focus on the intrinsic quality rate of 95%, including whether the men of ability (65%, is gentle (55 %, is humorous and cheerful (30%, is steady and generous (25%, are valued in girls. They abandon the kind of "judge a book by" thinking, it should be said that this is a more rational trend. the other hand, boys, girls is gentle (50%, whether sincere good (45% are still concerned about aspects of their first, beautiful and dignified (35% is not far behind, as well as high academic achievers (20%, etc. The data show that the intrinsic quality of boys to girls focus was 55% for the appearance of the requirements of boys than girls, and for the knowledge and ability requirements, saw a lot of girls than boys are. Links to free download http://www.hi138.com
Of course, focusing on external factors, but also no shortage there nearly 20 percent of women want a tall, handsome boyfriend, nearly 50% of boys eager to pursue the beautiful girl, but frankly some of that "care about each other is money." This is quite normal phenomenon in this commodity economy, society, people have become reality together, people learned to use external sensory stimuli to meet the needs of a heart, but not to each other after decades of elegance Zhengmao, had to tell their own reality, internal quality good people forever young and beautiful.

3. Lovelorn mental experiences reflect the perfect life of medical students self-management Education system is essential
Love brings a wonderful feeling, love is like roses, fragrant at the same time it brings, and sometimes hurt the fragile soul. Russian writer Turgenev wrote that love of disillusionment is painful for any person : But for a substantial soul, a want of self-deception, frivolous and exaggerated with the soul, which is almost unbearable a Indeed, when a person has exposure to two marvelous world of ecstasy, but be left with a sudden the vast desolation of the universe, he is not generally encountered in low life, not ordinary life twists and turns, but the mind fall into the abyss. This encounter took place in the door first opened to love, and threw himself into During the medical students who are more miserable situation of course the survey results show that the ratio is greater than the pain of a breakup comes naturally melancholy, and there was a significant difference .70% of the students in a timely, reasonable adjustments emotional, transfer to the learning or go on for only 30% of the students think they can not afford, will not escape despair, and even psychological imbalances in the romance of the students, 55% of the students think that is very painful, which was significantly higher than boys and girls, about 65% more frightening is that, some students said they rejected affection or love relationship ended, he had attempted suicide.

If love is the eternal topic, then falling out of love should also be by the philosopher Francis Bacon said, all the truly great character, not a result of love and mad, because the great cause of this weakness of emotional inhibition. Throughout the ages many great men in love After setbacks, has not been overwhelmed by the pain of lost love, but of pain as a driving force, and finally achieved a remarkable career achievements. Goethe breakup did not fall into a deep pain, but to their love as a creative burst of material, written in the <<Young Werther of trouble>> in order to become the starting point of his career success.

Walk road of life, love is just part of life but not all, the same as if the love only for love and live life, it will in the long road of life lost signs. Lovelorn not lose the right to love, Eros is not always be abandoned. poet Xu that love is scarce, he said: "get it, I am fortunate not, my life, that's all."

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